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How slow can you go? May 30, 2024

When the standard portrayal of sex is hot, horny and fast, why would you want to cultivate erotic experience that is warm, tender and slow?

Rushing into intensity can be a way of avoiding all the niggles, fears and uncertainties going on underneath the surface of experience. Making a lot of...

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What is Eros? Apr 18, 2024

Eros is the energy of existence. Expressing itself as aliveness.

Ero emerges through every aspect of life. Whether we are consciously aware of it or not.

It is the fire of desire.
It is the current flowing.
It is the ground that roots.
It is the inspiration that gives you wings.

Yet how do we...

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Emergent Eros: Authentic Aliveness through Intimacy & Embodiment Apr 09, 2024

You are invited to an innovative new paradigm-shifting retreat this Summer - Emergent Eros (14th to 18th August @ Osho Leela).

A rare in-person group event with me! Visioned and curated in collaboration with my beloved friend and colleague Catherine Hale.

We are taking what is best in a festival...

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What I learned about Eros through creativity (and how stress blocks both) Mar 21, 2024

If you’ve been following my work for a while, you will know that I’ve been cultivating the practice of writing.

Last year – when I moved home and became a solo householder again – writing output withered and waned. Faced with the newness of space and place and busyness of...

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